11.30.2010

A Glimpse into the BEST Summer of My Life!

I nearly cried when I saw this video.
These were the halls Evanne, Katie, Charlie, and I ran through every day.
That is the control room I brought coffee to every morning at 6:00 am sharp.
Those were the producers I got to work with.
Sometimes I forget just how blessed I was to be at this show.
And what would blow your mind is...
those people really are that fun...
they really are as nice as you think they are...
and it really is the Today Show Family.

PS.
Hope you all brought in the holiday season tonight with Natalie and Al 
as the Rockefeller Christmas Tree was lit.
I know I sure did.
Christmas has officially arrived.

Lucketts, Virginia

On Friday
(after we finally rolled ourselves out of bed - that time change gets ya)
we took a 30 minute drive down to Lucketts, Virginia.
A small town filled to the brim with fantastic antiques.
I heard about it from my friend Jill.
Boy were we excited to check it out.
Allison and I had been talking about it for weeks.

 Allison even bought an antique dresser
for a whopping $89
It was in fabulous condition.
I am so glad she bought it.
 When I say "we" were excited I mostly mean the girls.
Katie found a fabulous spoon pen
Lizzie got a pillow and candle
and Ann got all kinds of goodies.
But the boys.
They were not digging the outting.
Lucky for us,
food was available.
If I wasn't limited by funds
and a 50 pound bag
and a tidy husband
I would have purchased everything in the store.
Look Dad, they even had an antique dentist chair.
Pretty hilarious.

If you ever get the chance be sure to check out Lucketts Virginia
Specifically the Lucketts store.
It is quaint and perfect.

11.29.2010

Barker Bowl 2010

 
This year was the first annual Barker Bowl.
My absolutely stellar twin-in-law, Allison, put this game together!
She even made us all t-shirts.


Official Roster:
Dads Team:
Jim
Vonn
Allison
Lizzie

Moms Team:
Ann
Katie 
James
    Karly

And the winner?
TIE!
That is how we like to do it in the Barker family.
Everyone wins.

PS
I even had a touchdown.
Yes.
James was VERY
VERY
proud.

11.28.2010

Thanksgiving 2010

This was a year of firsts for me.
It was my first Thanksgiving with James
And it was my first Thanksgiving away from the Staples family.
Although they were deeply missed
I am very lucky to have such wonderful in-laws
And I am happy to report
No tears.
All smiles.
(at least for me - not so much for Mama Staples)


We got into Virginia Tuesday evening.
We had a delicious dinner at Coastal Flats at Tysons Corner.
Favorite mall ever.
Wednesday was filled with relaxing.
The Barker Bowl of course.
(more on that to come)
And what else...
Thoughts anyone?
Personally...
I loved it!
And then of course.
Thursday.
The big day.
The Barkers always have Thanksgiving with the Inoueys.
Super good family friends.
I just adore Jay and Karen.
We also had another sweet family join us from their ward.
The Hiatts.
Such sweet people - with a little one on the way.

Since my Mother-in-law is basically Relief Society woman of the year
She made us all homemade aprons to cook in.
Even though she did most of the cooking
she liked to make us feel like we helped out.
But in all reality.
She is super woman.
Of course the table was decorated to perfection! 



And here we are.
Stuffed to the brink.
To say the least we ate and ate and ate.
Which is just what you should do on Thanksgiving.
Right?
This year we have SO much to be grateful for.
This week we were especially grateful to Jim and Ann.
Thanks for making our Thanksgiving so wonderful.
We are more than spoiled with the two of you.
And of course.
Katie, Vonn, Allison, and Lizzie.
Games, PJ's, iPad wars, and bad navigation.
Certainly wouldn't be the same without you guys!

Both James and I are working on being grateful for the simple things in life.
I am incredibly blessed to have James as my husband.
He is such a wonderful example to me.
This week we were especially grateful to have a few prayers answered concerning some questions about jobs and our future.
We were reminded once again that our Heavenly Father has a hand in everything in our lives.
We have certainly felt our prayers being answered since we have been married.
What a blessing it is to have the Gospel of Jesus Christ in our lives.
And what a blessing it is to have each other this Holiday season.
We've got a lot coming at us here in the next few weeks.
Here's to a great finish to the best year of our lives.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone.
Let the Christmas Joy begin!

11.27.2010

S.T.I.Y.M. TIME


[ noun \ˈstīm\ \ˈtīm\]
Stats.To.Impress.Your.Man

While playing in our annual Barker Bowl this weekend I had a big moment.
After throwing a pass to James to score a touchdown I ran to him and said.
I just had an assist.
James laughed hysterically.
Gave me a kiss.
And continued playing.
Later I reminded him that he thought it was pretty stinkin cute that I knew what an assist was.
I quickly learned this was not the case.
James did not think it was cute because
there is in fact no such thing as an assist in football.
Since this moment of absolute shame for my poor husband I have been trying to improve on my knowledge of sports.
As a newlywed I have accepted my fate.
ESPN and CNBC will be on in my home more than the Today Show or CMT.
No ifs ands or buts about it
If I want to spend time with my husband 
I must learn to at least appreciate sports, stocks, and a few other s words that need no mentioning.
So in an attempt to satisfy my husband I am now officially enrolled in a stats training program.
James likes to refer to it as S.T.I.Y.M. TIME.
Or in other words keeping me up to speed with what is going on in male brains across the country. 
Little glimpses into his male brain.
In attempt to help other 
wives/girlfriends/daughters/sisters/employees
carry on an interesting convo with the males in their lives
I thought I'd post a few helpful hints from my frequent training sessions.
Tonight's little tidbits of male knowledge:

1. The years biggest disappointment in sports so far is the Miami Heat.  
This year the Heat has 3 really good players 
(one named Lebron James) 
and yet there record is 9-8.
(wins-losses for those like me who had no clue which number came first)

2. If the news says the Dow Jones is up you can "generally"" expect a happy husband
3. TCU is now the only hopeful BCS buster in college football
(no clue what any of those letters mean but just say it.  You'll sound really smart)

4.  When you hear the sound "buh nah nuh, nah nuh nah" 
your man will be watching ESPN's Sportscenter.
AKA the latest news and highlights from the days action in sports.
It is 1 hour long.
Word to the wise: 
Never interrupt your man watching the "Top 10 Plays"
The Top 10 Plays is equivalent to the Nordstrom Half Yearly Sale
Holy time in the male mind.


5. In his mind me purchasing a pair of shoes directly effects his golfing career
Let me explain
When I ask if the shoes that are on sale are cute
his only thought is
$50 now =  thousands of dollars in 50 years
which = thousands of rounds of golf
So no the shoes are not cute
and no I should not be offended
because in the end it all boils down to golf. 

11.24.2010

Wednesday Wisdom



How thankful are we?  
Thanksgiving Day provides for us a good opportunity to ask ourselves how thankful are we. 
It is important that we recognize that all blessings come from the Lord.  
I recognize this, and I also recognize the blessings that come from having good parents 
who are always loving, concerned, and protective of us.  
I had such parents, and time of the year especially remind me of them.  
We always had Thanksgiving dinner at my parents home.  
We raised our own turkeys and chose a special one for our feast.  
Mother had a wood burning stove and she knew how to use it to perfection.  
Her turkey and dressing were the best, as were her potatoes and gravy, roll, pies, 
and all the other trimmings. 
If the day was full of sunshine, and appetites completely satisfied, 
some of my brothers and I would lay down in the haystack, facing the sun, and have a nice little nap.  
I treasure those Thanksgivings at my parents home.  
To finish off the day, my darling fathers always played the 'fiddle' and harmonica for us.  
The tune Turkey In The Straw was my favorite. 
My Dad loved to play for friends and family. 
So with very little encouragement he would open his violin case, 
check the bow and strings, 
rub rosin on the strings and away he would go.  
Everyone loved this, 
but sometimes Mother would try to discourage him by saying, 
"oh Elmer!!'  
This season I would hope that my family will show how thankful they are 
by remembering 'from whom all blessings flow.  
Then show it by helping others in their struggles, 
loving unconditional, 
and being extra tender to the feelings of each member of our families.  
Love to you all.  
Grandma Ora

*A weekly genealogy message or bit of wisdom from the most beautiful wise woman I know.

11.22.2010

You Make My Dreams Come True...

Last Saturday my husband took me to see this movie...
I don't know what he was thinking.
I have been extremely emotional lately about my career.
If you haven't seen the movie...
GO.
I laughed out loud.
A number of times.
But for the last hour of the movie I was a complete disaster.
While every one else was enjoying this cheery film...
I was crying like a baby.
It was so embarrassing.
I told James that everyone was going to wonder what he had done to me.
Why would a girl cry in such a warm fuzzy movie?
I'll tell you why...
I am OBSESSED.
Completely
Totally
100% 
Obsessed 
with morning television.
And this summer I got a glimpse into this life...
I got a glimpse into what running around New York to save your butt is like.
One day I ran those streets up and down up and down
finding gold lamae shorts for Matt Lauer to give to Russell Crow.
Yes I was the intern.
And yes I did intern tasks.
I got stary eyed from big time reporters and anchors...
DAILY.

But more than that...
I knew what it was like to eat breath and sleep something you love...
and do it with people you absolutely adore.
People you quickly consider your family.
I could not help but think of all the beautiful people I met while at the Today show.
No, I was not Matt Lauers best friend.
No, I did not actually ever write my own story.
Yes, the tough hours were extremely discouraging.
But it was my dream.
And I have to admit...
it still is.
I still want to be a reporter.
Because I truly deeply believe that journalism can make a lot of difference in this world.
Bottom line.
1/2 of me wants to save the world as a morning news reporter/producer
1/2 of me wants to make my husband treats and have a craft blog
1/2 of me wants to have a baby...now
1/2 of me says what the heck once I got married this was all supposed to be decided for me.
How is it that I am more confused about my dream now than I have ever been before?
But one blessing stands out above the rest...
I am sure glad I have my Mr. Dapper with me through all the confusion.
And as the two of us drove away -
stuffed from the Pizza I used to console my tears,
and my husband got me laughing again 
while he did those dance moves only a few of us have been privileged to see
(one day I will catch them on camera for your viewing pleasure)
sang at the top of our lungs,
and then James said some real cute things to which he sarcastically pointed out...
"We are having a moment here - don't ruin it."
I remembered that before I know it all the confusion will be over...
and no matter what..
my dreams have already come true.
So - pretty sure I am going to be a ok!

11.20.2010

Sweet Tooth Fairy

Last year I was lucky enough to be a fairy at...
For this beautiful lady...

I met her at my internship with Good Things Utah.
And I instantly wanted to be her best friend.
(And not just because her treats were scrumptious)
The other day Nicole told me she met Megan while working at the bank.
30 minutes later Megan returned with a box of cupcakes for her.
Just cause.
Things like this make Megan and her adorable hubby Ethan successful.
I just wanted to tell Megan and all of her fairies congratulations today
Because I am a big stalker
And still go into the shop on a regular basis.
(I miss working there SO much)
I have learned that the fairies are now going to be on 
QVC, a TLC show, AND just opened their 5th shop.
If you get a second head on into one of their shops!
Try out the cakebites for me.
You will not be sorry!

Congratulations!


You've probably already seen on Allie's blog...
but we are pretty excited in the Barker Fam today!
Katie Christenson... 
the oldest Barker...
just passed the California Bar Exam!
Which makes Katie and Vonn
Mr and Mrs J.D.
They are what we like to call a power couple.
And best of all...
They are two of the nicest people in the world.
We couldn't be more proud of her!
Congratulations Katie!
Can't wait to see you on Tuesday and give you a squeeze.

11.19.2010

Nothing Like This..

Yesterday James and I celebrated our 2 month anniversary.
We were SO excited to celebrate.
Any reason we have for a little date night - 
you know we are in.
On February 1st 2010
James and I celebrated our 4 month anniversary of our first kiss.
He brought me 4 roses.
The tradition continued last night.
Nothing makes a girl happier than roses with meanings.
 
We don't eat out much so when we do I get really excited.
We've been dying to try out some of the new restaurants around town.
Last night we went to the newly renovated Riverwoods shops
and ate at La Jolla Gardens.
If you haven't been...
It is a must.
Such a fun atmosphere -
no preservatives in the entire restaurant.
Same chef from Chefs Table
but much better prices.
Everything is under $20.
In honor of our first meeting we delved into a delicious 
Avalanche Caramel Apple 
from Rocky Mountain Chocolate factory.
 We then started a new tradition.
Going to the temple on our annivesary.
Nothing better than remembering the promises we made to each other...
and more importantly that we get to be together forever if we keep those promises.

 It was the perfect celebration.
And in the end we realized how wonderful married life is.
I thought I knew how much I loved this boy...
but it gets better and better with every day.
We continue to keep each other laughing.
James said the best part of being married is being able to wake up together.
And I think the best part is knowing he is mine forever.
Never leaving me.
I remind him of it daily!

We've been lovin' the new Rascal Flatts CD around here.
Those boys have a special place in our relationship.
Both James and I thought we had love before...
but we had no idea how incredible love could be.

You can't describe the sea,
Unless you been there before.
It's just a mystery,
Until your standing on the shore,
And moved by every wave
Taking your breath away like you do,
To me.

Thought I'd been touched,
Thought I'd been kissed,
Thought I'd been loved,
But it was nothing nothing like this.

Sure glad I found ya Jamesy!
Here is to many many more roses in that vase.



11.18.2010

Currently Working On...


A BYU Weekly story for the Bijou Market.
Stay tuned into BYU Weekly set to air on December 4th for a behind the scenes look
into how stay at home Moms and BYU students are turning into handmade vendors
AND how the Bijou Market was started.
In the meantime, head on over to BYU Weekly's website to see our latest show
and find out what is up with the new dorms at BYU.
Wish they were here when I was a freshie!

Marital Problem...

Sunday night I was completely restless.
This usually happens to me after a day of church.
(Old Testament in Sunday school is a big issue for me)
But James is an early to bed kind of a guy.
I did everything in my power to try to keep him awake.
Mostly anything completely annoying to him when he is tired.
Singing hymns.
Snuggling.
Jumping on the bed.
Snuggling.
Defeated, I went downstairs for a little midnight snack.
When I returned I found this barricade around my husband.
The man is not sensitive when he is tired.
He didn't even bat an eye when I took a picture of it.
And currently...
he's dead asleep...
while I blog.
His parents have the same issue.
Dad goes to bed.
Mom is a night owl.
My parents?
Same issue.
My Dad has been yelling at my Mom to "come to bed"
since before I can remember.
At one point Mary mentioned she was going to buy Derek a fish
to keep him entertained when she went to bed.
I think for our 2 month anniversary I am going to go buy myself a Nemo.
It seems we are genetically disposed to the issue.
We are doomed.

PS -
My real 2 month anniversary present to myself...
Modern Family Season 1
Only 20 bucks for the whole first season
It's going to be my "Nemo"
And I am quite excited about it.

11.17.2010

Wednesday Wisdom


I grew up in Washington, Utah at the end of a dirt road 
with plenty of property to roam around with a creek running along the bottom of our property.  
Having five older brothers and being the only girl, 
naturally I was a tomboy.
When my chores were done I would gather a girlfriend or two and 
go to the creek to play in the water, 
build wigwams 
(Indian dwellings made of arrow willows)
and pretend we were Indians living by a stream.  
Sometimes we would take a frying pan, potatoes, onions, homemade bread, 
and a quart bottle of milk so we could build a fire and cook our dinner.
It was wonderful!  
I felt very safe and peaceful there. 
It was a time when crime was unheard of in our small country town. 
I would also walk along the creek, then up a hill to my Grandmother Sandberg’s house.  
Both of my father’s parents were born and raised in Sweden.  
My grandmother’s name was Bertha Kronvall Sandberg.   
She always had Swedish cookies for a treat that I thought were heavenly.  
She was a weaver of rugs and carpets and had a special room that had her loom in it
that my grandfather had made for her many years before.
 I would sit there a long time watching her weave her magic talent.  
She had been a seamstress and weaver in Sweden.  
She made her husband and son’s suits and shirts, and lovely dresses for her daughters.  
By this time my grandmother was becoming old and in a few years she had to put those things aside, 
just like I am doing now.  
My grandfather, Steen Sandberg, had died just before I was born, 
but his Black Smith shop was still there with most of his equipment in it.  
I loved to look around at all of those things.  
Grandmother was a wonderful person who had endured a lot in coming to this country.  
She wasn’t a very outgoing person, but still had a sense of humor.  
She had brought her accordion from Sweden, one of the very few treasures that she was allowed to bring. 
The accordion is a small-keyed wind instrument in which the wind is forced upon free metallic reeds by means of bellows,
which fold in and out.  
I got that description from the dictionary!  
When I would go to my grandmother’s house I could have stayed all day long listening 
and watching her play her beloved accordion.  
Playing all Swedish tunes of course!  
We were never taught the Swedish language, 
and for that I am very sorry.  
Maybe it was too painful for her to speak in her native language with all the memories, 
but when she did it was usually only in conversations with the eldest of their children 
who had come to this country with them.  
When my grandfather, Steen, was young his parents joined the LDS church.  
Their names were Swen Sandberg and Pernilla Nilsson Sandberg.  
They decided to immigrate to America but it was very expensive and
they could only afford to take three of their children with them.  
Their plan was for Steen and one of his sisters to stay behind in Sweden 
to work and earn money to be able to join the family as soon as possible.  
As was the custom of that class of people, 
my grandfather was apprenticed out to a carpenter and blacksmith, 
while his sister helped in kitchens.  
It was difficult for them to save enough money, 
so it was quite some time before this dream came true.  
In the meantime, my grandfather’s sister became very ill with the flu and died.  
Can you just feel the pain that my great grandparents, 
Swen and Pernilla, and my grandfather, Steen, must have suffered!
 And as this darling young girl lay gravely ill she must have surely needed and wanted her mother 
who was helpless and so far away in America. 
Steen met, fell in love, and married my grandmother, Bertha Kronvall.  
By the time they had saved enough money to make the journey to America, 
they had already had three children, which made the trip cost even more. 
Once they arrived in the United States they rode a train from New York City to Salt Lake City.  
They struggled to purchase a horse, mule, and a wagon to make the trek to Dixie,
as that is where Brigham Young had assigned them to go.  
Steen’s father, my great grandfather Swen, 
had already settled in the Southern Utah area and had built a small one room home for Steen and his little family.  
It had a basic fireplace and a dirt floor. 
Despite the lack of space and the crudeness of it, 
my grandmother said it looked like a palace to her after all that she had endured to get there!  
That is how the Sandberg’s got their start in Dixie. 
I am so thankful to my great grandparents Swen and Pernilla and to my grandparents Steen and Bertha for all the struggles and hardships they had to go through.  
They are part of who I am and I love and honor them for giving it their all.  
What they did now influences all their posterity. 

Love to all!
      Grandma Ora Bertha Sandberg Milne


Uncharted...

(photo credit: le love image)
Two days ago I officially applied for graduation.
Still not sure if they are going to accept it but I can't believe I am here.
It seems like yesterday that I was a little freshman living at Heritage Halls
It seems like yesterday I was living in London studying abroad
It seems like yesterday I was accepted into the Broadcast Journalism program
It seems like yesterday I did my first news story
It seems like yesterday that I met the man of my dreams
It seems like yesterday I was interning in New York at the Today Show
And now...
all the sudden it's today and all of these "accomplishments"
are nothing but stepping stones to make me who I am.
Suddenly my opportunities are endless.
From the day I was born there was a plan for me.
You know, elementary school, intermediate school, middle school, high school, college....
And then.
There is nothing.
No plan.
No map.
No direction.
"When I grow up I want to be..."
A Mom!
But I am not ready to be a Mom today.
Not tomorrow.
And probably not for the next year or two.
But what the heck do I do until then?
James is going to be working anywhere from 50-80 hours a week starting in July.
So do I really want to shoot to be a news person
Work terrible hours
And see my husband between the hours of 10 pm and 3 am?
Just to turn around and quit a year later to be with a munchkin...
Not really.
Doesn't sound fun to me. 
But will I regret not giving it a shot for a year or year?
So do I just go get a job at j crew?
Sure.
But what in the world do I do with the rest of my time.
I've always been a busy body.
You know, school, committees, jobs, etc. etc.
And suddenly as of April 2011 
I have NOTHING to do.
This nothingness is uncharted territory for me.
Don't know how to handle nothing.
Words of advice.... anyone?
Please.

11.15.2010

Dear Twin-in-Law

Last week the crazy college crew had a Conan party
Naturally we watched such an outrageous show on such a conservative campus
You would have loved everything about it.
But what you would have loved very most 
was the walk to and fro the event.
HUNDREDS
of these leaves.
I was in leaf heaven.
It was a perfect rainy fall night.
I was picking up leaves
throwing them at your brother
dancing in them
obnoxiously singing songs from singing in the rain
and making your brother skip.
(Shh... I wasn't supposed to tell)
We thought of you and your love for giant leaves.
Boy do we love fall.
PS
see you in 7 days.
Washington D.C. here we come.

5:30 AM

I didn't have any reason to be sad when James and I got married.
BUT
if I had one -
I was kind of sad to see the single life go.
My first Sunday back to married reality rocked my world.
As I sat in church I suddenly worried that I was going to loose my identity 
and just become "that married girl."
You know, after the wedding 
married people are boring.
Right?
No late night parties.
No feeling like a rebel.
But have no fear.
Being "that married girl" is a lot more fun than I ever imagined.
And if I may say so myself -
maybe even a little more rebellious.
Take for example this weekend.
We were lucky enough to be invited to Dani Bree and Daron Young's cabin in Glenwild.
Of course the cabin was incredible.
But what made the weekend so wild and crazy was the crowd.
Dani Bree + Daron
Nicole + Blair
Shelby + Ryan
Lindsay + Kory.
We were one wild wedded crowd.
(all except one couple are newlyweds - but they fit in just great).
We enjoyed soup and bread bowls - yummy treats.
And then the fun began.
First it was games - girls vs. boys.
Girls won - 
of course.
Girls rule.
And then it was off to what we do best.
The girls huddled around the kitchen table for hours of girl talk.
Who knew - 
even when you are married you talk about boys.
And of course the boys spent hours trash talking around the pool table.

 Before we knew it - it was 5:30 in the morning.
Honestly I don't think I even realized it was past midnight.
We all felt like we were in middle school -
house to ourselves -
staying up all night.
It was a party.
We all finally crashed.
Slept in too late to even mention.
Made a quick einstein bagels run.
And watched the BYU game -
or did even more girl talk.

 Shelby crashed.
Isn't she the cutest?
She and Ryan have quickly become one of our favorite couples.
And they live just a few doors down.
Blair + Nicole have become like siblings.
We practically live at each others houses.
I am not quite sure how we would survive without these two.
St. George for life Blair.
Around 4:30 we all decided we better head back to reality.
No one wanted to leave.
It was a dream weekend.
We cannot thank Dani Bree and Daron enough.
They were incredible hosts.
And more than that - 
an absolute blast to be around.

Who knew -
life as a married was even more fun than life as a single.
Best discovery ever.

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