4.29.2011

Birthday Week...

It is a big week for the Barker/Staples family.
In just one week we have the birthdays of
Katie {Barker} Christenson, Vonn Christenson, 
Katie {Staples} Topham, Ann Staples, and Jim Barker.
Can you even believe it?
Our families are so insanely similar with names and birthdays that sometimes I get myself confused.
But I think we even managed to call all the right people on the right days.
Happy Birthday everyone!  
Sure do love you.

Today is my Moms birthday and James Dads birthday.
Ironic considering I am pretty much a mini version of my Mom -
and James is pretty much a mini version of his Dad.
Happy Birthday to the people we look up to -
to the people we talk to on the phone every day -
to the people who are our best friends -
and to our look a likes.
If we turn out half as good as you -
we will have succeeded!

4.28.2011

Royal Wedding Buzz

When I was a little girl I remember my Mom taking pictures of the TV.
Sounds strange -
but she REALLY wanted Princess Dianas haircut.
Just a few short days later I woke up to find my Mom in tears.
The Princess had died.
And my Mom had stayed up all night to watch her funeral.
Just as she had stayed up all night to watch the wedding of the Lady Diana and Prince Charles.
For the next year or so our living room turned into a small shrine of Princess Diana.
We had EVERY coffee table book about her lined up in a row.
Apparently love for the Royal Family is genetic.

Exactly 10 years later I pinched my pennies, packed my bags,
and headed off to the land of Princes and Princesses.
I love everything about the royal family 
and most of you already know about my obsession for weddings....
So, today more than ever before I wish I could hop across the pond 
with my Mom and Grandma in tow to see the new Princess crowned.
But since I am here in California with my very own real life prince 
looking for our very own real life palace -
I probably wont be heading to London anytime soon.
Instead - I thought I would share a few links to some fun sites 
I have been following to keep up with the Royal Wedding Buzz.
AND the party planner in me just has to show you some fun sites
to create your very own wedding event!
A Today Show must watch from my fellow Today Show Intern - Matt on Jimmy Fallon.

I could go on for hours -
but hopefully all of you are getting some shut eye for the big ceremony in just a few.
Happy Royal Wedding Day!

 

4.27.2011

I Am Not My Body...

A few weeks ago I had an opportunity to work with two incredible burn survivors 
for a story about the documentary I Am Not My Body.
The documentary is the story of twelve year old Marius
who was burned and orphaned in a Romanian house fire.
Two of my dear broadcast journalism friends found out about his story 
and wanted to tell it.

They got to work not only telling Marius’ story
but also the stories of other burn survivors.
They were inspired by this Mormon Message
which prompted the name for their documentary.
Like millions of people across the country I knew 
and loved Stephanie Nielson from her inspirational blog.
This woman was truly delightful in person.
She welcomed me into her home with a warm hug.
Nudging her kids toys out of the way,
she sat down and talked with me as if I were her best friend.
She reassured me of the divinity of motherhood.
And bore her personal testimony of family -
and her Savior Jesus Christ.
And as we walked out of her house my photographer looked at me and said 
“what a beautiful woman.”
That summed it up.
These two individuals are the real definition of beautiful.
They are strong.
They are confident.
They are happy.
Above all else they understand their divine nature -
and they are beautiful.
The story begins at 18:55
to learn more about the documentary click here.
And to read about the inspiring life of Stephanie Nielson click here.

4.25.2011

The Beginning of the End...

A few weeks ago a big group of friends got together for a send off BBQ.
It seems like almost a miracle that we were able to get so many people together at one time during finals.
But somehow we managed.
 
As you can seen the girls spent most of the time chatting and hanging out by the food -
while the boys played a pickup game of football.
However,  I did learn how to do a {semi} cartwheel...
which has been a lifelong battle.
 
It was hysterical to sit and watch our husbands.
We were all so nervous that someone would get picked last, or fall flat on their face.
James of course played incredible -
but did have one classic fall and had some first grade style grass burns on his leg to show for it.




Extremely grateful to have gotten to know the Skousens and the Freis.
I feel like we are six peas in a pod.
It seems that the boys get along great -
and so do the girls.
Not sure how that happened!
I love this pic of James on his tippy toes.



Thanks to our adorable friends Chase and Jenna we were able to have a fun BBQ!
Their little grill was incredible.
I have got to get myself one of these!

It was the beginning of the end for us.
We still have another month here in Provo -
but a lot of our friends are leaving our little bubble.
We are sad to see them go but oh so excited for their adventures that are ahead.

Tulip Festival...


I have a big graduation post on its way...
but I couldnt resist posting these gorgeous pictures.
On Saturday the Barkers and Staples packed up and headed to Thanksgiving Point.
The boys golfed -
and the girls looked at flowers.
It was the perfect morning.
The annual Tulip Festival is going on and if you haven't gone - you must!
Lucky for me my mother-in-law and twin-in-law are incredible photographers.
They snapped some fabulous pictures of the festival.
 





 Grandma came along for the festival and she was such a trooper.
She said throughout the weekend -
I am here and that is a reason to celebrate.
I couldn't agree more!
She rented herself a golf cart and my Uncle Jim and Aunt Sheron
(Yes, I still have to put Uncle and Aunt in front of their names.  Always have.  Always will)
drove her around.
We walked along side and had a blast.
The Barker girls.
So grateful that they are mi
The tulips were a bit shy because it was still cold.
I am begging James to take me back next week when they open up more.
But even still it was a delightful morning.
Maybe it was flowers...
but more than likely it was the company.
I am extremely blessed to have such extraordinary women in my life. 

A few hours later amid the chaotic weekend I had a moment to reflect on my morning.
I couldn't help but think that because of the great women in my family - 
I have learned to love the divinity of women.
I have seen the women in my life go through extreme difficult situations -
yet they always seem to rise above them and give even more to others.
And you can see it in their eyes and countenance .
"When someone gives another person a flower,
the fragrance of the flower lingers
 on the hands of the giver."
Thomas S. Monson
   I cant think of anything more beautiful.

4.21.2011

We Did It!

Him: Bachelor of Science - Accounting
Her: Bachelor of Art - Communications - Broadcast Journalism
Let the festivities begin!

4.20.2011

Easter Ideas...

 
The other day James and I dropped off a plate of goodies to a few of our neighbors...
two in particular that we don't know very well.
Yesterday I came home from an exhausting day at school and found this on my doorstep.
This was how she had returned my small simple plate.
When I saw it I couldn't even figure out who had done it and why.
Until James pointed out that it was my plate.
I am LOVING the idea of returning a plate from goodies or a party -
decorated for the upcoming holiday.
Such a small and simple thing that made my day complete.

I am on the look out for some fun Easter ideas.
This will be my first Easter as a Barker -
and I would really like to start a family tradition of our very own.
Suggestions?
What are your Easter traditions?

Wednesday Wisdom...

Way back in the Olden Days, I acquired a love of water.  
Living in a  farming community, the water rights, 
and watering turns, were high on the survival list.  
It meant life to us in many ways.  
Our main water came from a wonderful spring above town which traveled in a large wide ditch, 
then dumped into the Virgin River.  
My father would go to the ditch very early every morning 
to fill buckets of water for our culinary needs, 
otherwise the the cows would beat him to the water and contaminate it.  
This was a normal way of life to us.  
And the watering turns were planned by the officials 
so they would be fair and regular.  
Each lot, or piece of ground was allowed so much time of use.  
If your turn came in the middle of the night, 
you would have to change the waters course 
by pulling the wooden dam to another position 
so it would stop flowing on the neighbors property and divert to yours.  
It was very important to be prompt on changing the water so you would have your full turn, 
or the neighbors would have more than you.  
Sometimes tempers flared over watering turns 
and shovels were a big threat if someone became too hot under the collar.  
My first attempt at swimming was in the Tanner Ditch.  
We would splash around in it stirring up the moss, mud, and the blood suckers!  
Are you wondering what in the world is a blood sucker?  
They are a slimy black-brown water creature about a inch long 
that attaches to your skin and sucks your blood.  
UGH.  
I have pulled a billion off from me in that Tanner Ditch.  
I also loved our watering turns because I would follow my  Dad to the large garden
while he directed the water down the long furrows, 
not too much and not too little.  
Just a correct amount so the vegetables would get a good slow soaking 
that would last until the next turn.  
I enjoyed making mud pies at the top of the furrows.  
You fill your hand with the wet sand-dirt at just the right consistency, 
then dribble dots of mud on the dry ground.  
Besides the decorated pies, 
I would make castles with walls around them 
and beam when my Dad would compliment me on my handiwork.  
He was a great story teller and would help me make up stories about the people who ate the pies 
and lived in the castles.  
I soon graduated to the big time water by way of Washington Swimming Pool.  
This was across the road from the old Cotton Factory and was the fun capital of Washington County.  
The pool was privately owned but open to the public for a small fee.  
It was a crude pool by today's standards, 
with a fine sand bottom and black rock sides.  
There was a large fresh water stream running into and out of it twenty four hours a day, 
so never needed chemicals.  
There were two diving boards-a high dive and a low dive, 
with a pulley and handle bar running the length of the pool.  
You would walk up a small hill, climb onto a platform, hold on to the pulley 
and zip through the air three fourths the length of the pool.  
They also had changing rooms, colored lights, 
and some of the towns best swimmers and divers doing show off dives.  
Two of my brothers and the pool's owners son's were the stars.  
We thought they were all like movie stars-strong, talented, and handsome.  
So as soon as I finished my chores at home, 
I was seen walking to the Washington Pool where I learned to swim from my brothers, 
getting my light complexion good and red and brown, 
and my blond hair getting lighter and lighter.  
My brothers all called me Blondie for years and years because of my blonde hair.  
Oh how I loved my five brothers .  
Now all this fun in the sun had its downside.  
In those days we didn't know what sun guard was, 
so our buckets were filled to the brim with the bad rays.  
In later years I have been paying the price for loving the sun and water so much.  
I have had many skin cancers and pre-cancers removed and still have some problems.  
I had just the right ingredients for this result-Swedish fair skinned, blue eyes.  
Then years later there was the ocean, 
and Lake Powell to add to my bucket.  
Oh well, it was worth it.  
Those long ago summers hold wonderful memories for me.  
I wish all my family could have had some of those adventurous, 
care free times.  
The most important part of those days, was the safety part.  
We could be away from home for hours without reporting to our parents.  
They knew we were with friends, 
with none of the threats of danger that lurk around so many places now, 
so it was a very special time for children growing up.  
Of course there were hardships, hard work, and a depression, but a rural kid had it made.  
How lucky could I be.    
Love to you all--Grandma Ora

4.18.2011

J Dawgs...

I don't like hot dogs.
(whether its that I dont actually like them or just that they scare me I am still not sure)
So when I came to BYU and learned that the hip and happenin place to be was a hot dog stand 
I was nothing short of bummed.
J-Dawgs located a mere one inch off of BYUs campus is the college hang out.
You must read the history on this place.
Crack-up.
Truth be known I think I mostly just tell myself I don't like the unhealthy snack. 
Or maybe it was my Mom - she gave me - no no thats yucky face as if I was about to eat dirt.
With an addictive appetite like mine I knew I would be in trouble if I actually ended up liking the joint.
Which is why for the past 4 years of my college career 
I have not allowed myself to relish in the ultimate BYU experience.
But with this being my last week at BYU I decided it was time.
Luckily for me I had a partner in crime.
Nicole hadn't given the dawg a shot either.
So, we made it an outing.
It was a warm gorgeous spring day.
I stood in the line.
Placed my order.
Beef dog.
(Simply because I don't know what the heck is in a polish dog. Beef sounded safe)
Watched them slice the hot dog in their unique j dawg fashion.
Put it on a tasty sweet white roll.
Placed my condiments order of special sauce and pickles.
And out the door we went.
The verdict: actually quite good.  
I am almost certain it was the roll and special sauce - 
and had absolutely nothing to do with the hot dog itself.
I almost ate the whole thing.
Afterward we walked around the newly renovated South Campus.
For years south campus at BYU has been haunted.
No exaggeration.
Signs about not walking alone at night - and emergency phones were placed throughout.
Since south campus was the home of my building I knew its frightening paths quite well.
But now BYU has transformed it into the most beautiful place on campus.
A new river - complete with a brick path, labeled plants, and waterfalls.
Nicole, Blair, James, and I were having so much fun racing sticks down the stream...
when we were approached by two older ladies.
They came right up to Nicole and I and asked if those two boys were our darling husbands.
We replied that they were and without hesitation they blurted out -
well, start having babies.  
No hesitation.
As I thought over my Friday I decided it was the complete definition of a BYU day.
Newlywed lunch at J Dawgs, 
a romantic stroll around the duck pond, 
and of course the challenge to have babies.
I am ashamed to say that I think I just became a zoobie.

And if I may suggest -
if you are a coug and  haven't given J-Dawgs a try...
you must.
Its your inner cougar duty.

Love, 
The newest zoobie in Provo.
(but thankfully - only for 3 more days)

4.16.2011

When One Door Closes...

 
I am afraid this is turning into a goodbye book lately.
And it probably wont end anytime soon with graduation right around the corner.
Last week was my last host shoot with BYU Weekly.
When I was first hired at BYU Weekly I had no idea what i was getting myself into.
It turned out to be a wonderful learning experience -
and a great place to make new friends.
 
 Hilary - who is kind of the associate producer has been a part of the host shoots from day one and I have always adored her.
Especially right now with her adorable baby bump.
Cant wait for this little dude to have his debut.


My first day as a host I nearly fell over when I saw the setup.
I had no idea there was an entire crew for the show.
BYUtv is truly remarkable and 
I cant wait to see what happens with it over the next few years.
Shortly after I started we moved into the new incredible building.
The potential for this channel is huge!
I got to know all of the photographers 
and love every one of them more than they will ever know.
Once you have lugged around all of your own equipment, tripods, mics, 
and of course messed up dozens of interviews because you forget to check something
you have a real appreciation for photographers.
They all did such a wonderful job and I was blessed to get to know them.

And of course...
I will forever be grateful for this man!
Our Executive Producer Jim Bell.
(Not to be confused with the Executive Producer of the Today Show also named Jim Bell)
He was the one that gave me a shot at this job 
at a time when I really needed some hope in the broadcasting world.
I got to know his darling girlfriend and have just loved getting to know both of them.
Thanks for this wonderful opportunity Jim and mostly for always being interested in my career and showing me alternative routes to getting to where I want to be.

Stay tuned - 
I still have two more episodes of BYU Weekly 
coming up in a few weeks
with a special interview with the one and only Nie Nie.

While I am sad to say goodbye to the BYU Weekly family...
I know it is time to move on to the next step.
And a few new doors have been opened to me...
More to come on that later.

4.14.2011

The Jefferson + Cherry Blossoms

Wishing I could be with our family in Washington D.C. right now...
stroll around the Jefferson...
enjoy the cherry blossoms ...
and reminisce about the big question James popped at this remarkable monument.
It will always hold a special place in our hearts.
And it has never looked so beautiful.
Thanks to Allison for these stunning pictures.
Oh how I love spring.

4.13.2011

Start to Finish

17 years ago I packed up my back pack and headed out on a little adventure called school.
I was so happy on my very first day...
but I can promise you I was even more excited on my very last.


(Wishin I had a set of those bobbles about now)

4.12.2011

Wednesday Wisdom...

Snippets from the life of my beautiful Grandma - 
a chance for you to gain some wisdom - 
and a great way to do genealogy
In 1960 we moved from the state of Michigan to Florida. 
The decision was made more on emotion than business, 
but there was some sense in both of these factors.  
After we were all settled in a lovely home 
that was across the street from the Intracoastal water way, and a block or two from the ocean, 
we began to think about buying a small run-about boat.  
We were in a small community bordering Ft. Lauderdale
which had many water ways or canals branching off the Intracoastal.  
It was a boat owners dream to live in that area, 
for the Intracoastal Waterway started in New Jersey(I think)
and went all the way to Miami, just inside the ocean.  
The channel was very deep, 
so the larger private luxury boats would come down from the north at the beginning of the winter 
and stay and play all season.  
As there was a large vacant lot directly across from us, 
we got to watch these beautiful ships go by.  
Our son Mark became acquainted with a boy his age named Mike.  
Mike's parents lived right on the water way and had a small dock, 
so with all the temptations of having a boat and the availability of a dock, 
we purchased a small Boston Whaler.  
Mark became the Master Boater,
learned to ski like a pro and even took the boat to school.  
A block and a half from their school was a Red Lobster restaurant 
from whom they got permission to tie the boat up there and 
they would scoot across the busy highway and on to school.  
After school they would ski all the way home.  
This was like the Garden of Eden to them.  
In the meantime Earl and I were learning a little about boats,
so one Saturday we decided we would take the boat out 
and stop at one of the nice boating clubs up the Intracoastal.  
Mark saw us off with a worried frown on his face 
because he thought we were too inexperienced to do that.  
We had a wonderful sight seeing time on the way to this fancy marina, 
pulled in and an attendant in flawless whites met and tied us up.  
We had a delicious and lingering lunch at the club house, 
thinking we were pretty smart.  
We went to get in our boat and the attendant pointed out that the tide had gone out 
and the rocks below the boat were too shallow to start the engine, 
so he would hold our rope and shove us out, then Earl could start the engine.  
All well and good, but the engine wouldn't start.  
The attendant was still holding the rope so we wouldn't drift into a large boat close by, 
when the engine started and Earl already had the throttle at full power.  
In the blink of an eye we shot out and it pulled the attendant up into an arc 
and into the water with his shining white uniform and hat on.  
Earl was so mortified and surprised, that he kept on going.  
We had red faces and a terrible conscience for a long time.  
When we arrived home Mark could tell things didn't go so well with us, 
and we had to tell him.  
I think he would have liked to ground us if he could get away with it.  
Earl called the Marina to enquire if the attendant was ok 
and if we could pay for the cleaning of the uniform.  
And Mark finally got over being embarrassed for us.  
Our boating skills did get much better thru the years 
and we had many wonderful experiences boating on Lake Powell with family and friends.  
Ann, Karly's Mom, remembers Lake Powell as the best times of her life.  
Love to you all--Grandma Ora

Provo Traditions...




(picture from festival of colors 2009)
The Cougars show their true colors by dousing themselves in colored chalk...
Find out all about the Festival of Colors.
AND the passover celebration you don't want to miss!
(How is that for a little tease)
My career at BYUtv is rapping up and I am super sad to say goodbye.
Making these last few shows the best ones yet.
(hopefully)

4.11.2011

Single Again?

Sometimes we party like we are still single...
only with married people.
We stay up till 3 am
we make late night runs to target and get paged over the speaker
we go out to dinner
we turn birthday celebrations into a week long event
oh and sometimes we even have a dance party via kinect
Thanks to this girl and her hubby we have made some great married friends 
who really know how to have some fun!



 (cutest baby ever - thanks for the picture Shelby)
Since everyone is growing up and getting big boy jobs in about two weeks -
we have been making the last of our college days.
(why didnt anyone tell me NOT to graduate fast?)
It has been truly a blast -
and the party isnt stopping.
We have a Provo Bucket list day on the agenda
(where we are going to do EVERYTHING a true coug should do while in Provo)
crafts
golfing
laying out
and anything even remotely irresponsible.
 Here is to our last two weeks as college kids!
 
(PS only thing I would change about this post - my husbands t-shirt.  
The shirt really freaked me out when we were dating. 
He claims the bear is classic polo. 
Its almost become adorable to me now because he loves it so much.  
Almost.)

4.10.2011

Thats a Wrap...

(I apologize in advance - this is a bit of a journal entry but I really want it for my records)
Thursday morning I walked up the long dreaded stairs to the newsroom for the very last time.
I could not believe the day had come.
2 years ago when I first started into the world of news I would never have dreamed of this ending.
While we all complained about school, work, and the hours we put in - 
we would probably all admit that this program shaped us into better - stronger people.
Starting in what we call 325 
(or in other words beginning reporting)
we were all thrown into a wild ocean
and it was literally sink or swim.
Imagine knowing very little about how to edit video or write a news piece
and being handed a giant camera and a giant tripod 
and be expected to have a good solid story within 24 hours.
Although we didn't even know each other 
we relied on each other and we got through.
These people -
this room -
they are my second home.
This year I had the opportunity to be the weather girl for the Thursday news cast.
I am not going to lie -
I was not excited about doing the weather...
but it turned out to be my favorite thing.
I was able to show my personality.
The last day it was raining -
so I decided to use an umbrella in my weather report.
Haha 
It is still making me laugh.

These are our wonderful producers.
I grew to love every one of them.
And adorable Lindsay Kezos -
a St. George girl who I absolutely love.
So glad I got to know her through the program.

 Our newsroom definitely has some spunk.
For example Brittany Glas -
who was the main anchor on Thursday makes her co-anchor Mark bring EVERY one of his ties in 
just so she can make sure they match.
This is what the control room looks like about an hour before the show starts.
Hysterical.
The two men that run the newsroom are truly remarkable.
We call them Brother Curtis and Brother Green.
Brother Curtis (left) is our news director.
He has taught me everything I know about writing.
And to my surprise is even a fan of my blog.
Which I take as a huge compliment.
He has literally sacrificed everything for the newsroom -
living thousands of miles away from his family for the past two years.
He is the one that prompted me cutting my hair into a bob.
And yet I still like the man!
He has done a lot for me and our program 
and I am so grateful for him.

Brother Green is the computer brain behind our program.
But that doesnt do him justice.
He is the glue that hold ours program together.
Imagine every day having ten to twenty students asking you computer questions.
Pestering you.
That is what Brother Green puts up with -
and yet I have never ever seen him without a smile -
and never heard him yell.
In addition to this he has taught me everything I know about editing -
and shooting a story.
He is incredibly talented and I am honored that I got to work with him.


Britt Lesser and Brittany Glas.
I can hardly believe we made it.
Our journey started clear back to the very first day of college.
We were in nerdy freshman academy together.
We were neighbors in the dorms.
And we have been through the entire program step by step together.
These are the kind of girls that you know are going to make a difference one day.
We have survived a few horrific classes, some pretty intense news moments, boyfriends and breakups, and now choosing career paths.
I am so glad I got to know these girls and cant wait to see what they do in the future.
Thursday cast and crew.
Love you all more than you will know!
The next day we had one last hoorah in the newsroom.
Just a little pizza party.
It was so great to get together with everyone and just kind of say our goodbyes.

What would I do without this girl?
We have also been through every step of the program together.
From application to sharing the same news day 
to New York 
and now to anchoring.
She is truly an incredible friend.
And one of the friends I will have throughout my entire life.
As my neighbor, friend, and coworker if you will my life just would not be the same without her.
 
Once again Brother Green and Brother Curtis.
Such an inspiration to us.

The New York girls minus Kourt who was definitely missed that day.
Adventures of a lifetime with those girls.
 Kylee, Nicole, and Kourt are the girls that one day I will be able to call and say -
what in the world have I done -
giving all that New York life up.
And they will remind me of the night we walked through the city and it was nothing short of incredible and we all agreed that no matter where our paths took us that we would remember that feeling of accomplishment and excitement.

The last day in the newsroom shocked me.
I was a lot more sad than I thought I would be.
I think it finally hit me that while news might not be my career path 
(although you never know)
I would not change my major for anything.
I have learned so much through these people and our experiences together.
It was what I was meant to do.
And I will forever be grateful for this wonderful experience.
To the class of 2011 - 
Congratulations!
Here is to the next stage of sink or swim!

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