The baby bump is really making its debut.
Everyone told me it would just pop out one day.
But I feel like every day it pops out more.
When James got home last night he could hardly believe it.
He asked me what it feels like to be pregnant.
And I laughed thinking how could I possibly describe what it feels like to watch your belly turn into a ball.
It is magical.
I had my monthly doctors appointment this week.
Everything came out perfect and I am measuring 24 centimeters - right where I should be.
I was finally smart enough to write down my questions before hand and it was very helpful.
My Mom and sister both did the Bradley classes.
While I like the natural ideas -
I was nervous about the local teachers and their particular methods.
I am also skeptical of myself and my pain tolerance.
{honesty at its finest}
My doctor respectively advised me against these classes
and recommended I take the birthing classes at Hoag Hospital instead.
I agreed with his points and after talking with James, we have decided to go that route instead.
I think I will buy the Bradley book and read it on my own.
We want to be realistic about epidural vs. natural birth for our first.
I am learning there is so much more to birthing and methods than just pain meds.
And I am loving reading other peoples birth experiences.
Each one is so different and unique to Mom, Dad and babe.
These sorts of parenting decisions are already consuming my thoughts.
No real cravings - except that I want sugar more this week than I have in the past.
Sweets sound good again.
Oh dear.
I am definitely more hungry as time goes on.
I still can't eat big meals but want to snack all day.
Every night I fall asleep on my left side - trying to obey that rule.
But I find myself waking up every.single.night. around 1 or 2.
I think its a combination of my wild and crazy pregnancy dreams, growing pains and having to go to the bathroom.
For the most part I still feel like a million bucks.
But after 2 months of a nausea hiatus - I threw up several times on Wednesday.
I have also felt incredibly tired again this week.
And have started to feel some serious "growing pains" in my belly at the end of the day.
But I will take the pains to watch my belly grow.
She is moving like crazy.
The movements have now gone from little flutters - to jolts.
I can actually see my stomach move with her.
James commented that now its like she is doing flips or swimming -
no more twitching.
I have even found myself wondering if she is going to be a super active baby
because I swear all this movement isn't normal.
Last night she responded to pokes and prods for the first time.
Hoping it wasn't just a fluke.
I simply adore her movements already.
She has gained 4 ounces in the last week.
And will gain 6 more this week.
She is more than 9 inches long.
I promised myself that I wouldn't get into nesting and baby buying until the start of the year.
Now the time is here and I am so excited to get going.
Thank you to pinterest I have started to compile some nursery ideas.
But I am still in need of baby product suggestions -
strollers, carriers, cribs, bumpers (to have or not to have), diaper genie, baby monitors, car seats etc.
What are your recommendations?

10 comments:
Oh boy things I wish I would have known on my first. Buy a double stroller from the get go. http://www.amazon.com/s/?ie=UTF8&keywords=phil+and+ted+double+stroller&tag=googhydr-20&index=aps&hvadid=4584519429&ref=pd_sl_85amuv55eb_e I got this one it's a jogger and the back part comes off so it can be a single and later on if you need to you can buy the back piece for a double. Chicco Key fit car seat is the best in my opinion and it can adapt to the stroller I suggested. Get a monitor with a camera. That's all I can think of now. You look darling by the way. Hope you continue to feel good being sick is no fun!
I agree with Stephanie double stroller from the get go you know which one mine is and how much I love it! But I guess I'm bias ;) I'm so excited for you!!! And sign up for AMAZON MOM!!!
Karly! I am so excited for you! I had Beckham completely natural. They did give me a little bit of pitocin to speed things up. I loved it because i could react to my bodys natural instincts and I was really afraid that if I had the epidural I wouldn't be able to feel if something was wrong, and didn't feel right. I didn't feel my contractions until I was dilated to and 8 and after that it all went so quick. So there's my two cents worth! Good luck!
I just wanted to add my 2 cents.
I went into my labor with a birth plan. I wanted this, I didn't want that, this is how I want it.
Let me just tell you, I was so incredibly disappointed in myself when NOTHING went according to my plan. I broke down when I had to have the epidural, I couldn't handle it when I had to have my emergency c section, I was so upset when my hubs couldn't cut the chord.
Now, I'm not saying that this will happen to you, not at all, but I wish that I had gone into it with less of a plan and more of a Que Cera Cera kind of attitude.
Just please, remember, go into it with a plan, but also know that your plan might just be thrown out the window. Because God really is the only one who gets to decide how it all pans out. :)
alright, I'm going to step off my soap box now.
You look fantastic by the way.
OH, also,
make sure you buy a wrap!!!
I am so pro "baby wearing"
so much better than the back pack type things. My husband even loves to use the wrap. So much easier on your back and shoulders, they are just so cuddled into you, babies love it, mums love it, dads love it. So get one!!
http://fabbabygear.com/index.php?main_page=index&cPath=233_357_413
With the Birthing Plan ideas... I think you should plan on whatever you're comfortable with, and don't push yourself into anything. You want to be kind of/ sort of calm (at least not frantic) when you're having a baby, so just make decisions that will put you in that sort of mood. You never know what will happen though.
As far as baby gear is concerned, I recommend spending a few extra bucks on getting a nice crib. We had one for a short period that wasn't the cheapest, but still not good, and it rocked back and forth, and was not strudy at all. Scary!
Yes, you look great. Congratulations, and good luck!
Andrea
I am loving all these suggestions. I can use all the advice I can get!
THE ONLY OTHER THING I NOTICED BESIDES YOUR DARLING BELLY....CAPRIS KARLY!!!! I'm am sooooo stinking jealous!
I feel like I have bought every baby thing out there...Haha I will let you know what ends up being a giant waste of money (cuz chances are there will be a few things)! I just wanted to be completely prepared. I'm not one of those "brave" women. In 5 or so weeks when I go into labor, I'm going to say one thing--"Give me the drugs" and hopefully it will be as painless as possible!! Love you babe!!
I'm new to the ol' Mom thing, but here's my take:
-I think it is smart to go into labor planning on as little intervention as possible. Here's why. If you go in knowing that you're getting an epidural (or even worse, get induced on your due date because your baby wasn't looking at that calendar in there), you'll go to the hospital really early, which could lead to needing pitocin to speed things up, which can often lead to c-sections after dropped heart rates (not always.. It's just a classic cycle and I've heard that story a lot). WIth that said, I totally had an epidural and loved it. It wasn't my plan, but it worked for me. I labored for a long time without it and went to the hospital dilated to a 6.5!!
Also, with baby items. Sometimes less is more. People go crazy when most things aren't at all necessary (a wipes warmer is coming to mind). I did love the velcro swaddle wraps. Also, I second.. or third.. the motion to get a double stroller now. Why not? You'll probably have another baby in a couple of years anyway! I love our Baby Jogger City Select (it can be single or double). My advice is to get last years model (of any brand). We got our 2010 stroller around this time last year. The almost identical 2011s were coming out, so ours was hundreds of dollars off!
whew! I'm done!
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